Disagreeing with you about God’s design, God’s will, God’s Word, and/or the work of God’s Spirit is not equal to HATE or ABUSE. It’s just that…disagreement. I do not hate you for disagreeing with me any more than you should hate me for disagreeing with you. Our disagreement should never be interpreted as HATE or ABUSE.
BUT, the repentant, regenerate, redeemed follower of Jesus is most certainly going to view God’s world through God’s lens, AND those who reject God and/or reject His Spirit and His Word are going to view this world thru their own lens.
God’s disapproval = agreement from His followers
disagreement = disagreement
disagreement ≠ hate
disapproval ≠ hate