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Why Partial Obedience Can Cost You Everything

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Obedience is not optional in the Kingdom of God—it is the very currency that moves us forward in His purpose. When God gives an instruction, He expects action, not hesitation. Yet, so often, we treat obedience as something we can schedule at our convenience. We delay, we analyze, we wait for a “better” moment—but the truth remains: delayed obedience is still disobedience.

Saul’s Half-Obedience Led to His Downfall

Look at Saul. God gave him clear instructions: destroy the Amalekites completely—leave nothing and no one behind (1 Samuel 15:3). But Saul, in his own reasoning, chose partial obedience. He spared King Agag and the best of the livestock, intending to deal with them later. On the surface, it might have seemed like a wise, strategic move. Maybe Saul thought, I’ll take care of it later or This seems like a better way to handle it.

But God wasn’t looking for strategy. He was looking for obedience.

When confronted, Saul justified his delay. He even tried to frame his disobedience as an act of worship: “The people took of the spoil, sheep, and oxen, the best of the things devoted to destruction, to sacrifice to the Lord your God in Gilgal” (1 Samuel 15:21). But Samuel’s response was clear and convicting:

“Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to listen than the fat of rams.” (1 Samuel 15:22)

Because of Saul’s delay—his decision to partially obey on his own terms rather than fully obey in God’s timing—he lost his kingdom. His future was directly tied to his willingness to follow God’s command completely and immediately.

What is God Asking You to Do?

Obedience is the key that unlocks the next step in our journey with God. Every moment we delay, we risk forfeiting the blessings and purpose He has set before us. The longer we hesitate, the more we step out of alignment with His will.

Maybe God has given you a clear instruction—to step out in faith, to forgive, to change your habits, to let go of something He has told you to release. Are you waiting for a more convenient time? Are you rationalizing your delay?

Too often, we think of disobedience as outright rebellion, but disobedience isn’t always a loud rejection of God’s will. More often than not, it’s a quiet deferral—a not yet, a maybe later. But just like Saul, we must recognize that when we delay, we are still resisting God’s command.

Saul thought he had time. He thought he could obey later. But partial and delayed obedience cost him everything.

The Cost of Hesitation

When we hesitate, we are not only delaying obedience—we are opening ourselves up to distractions, doubts, and alternative paths that will pull us further from God’s plan. The longer we wait, the more room we give the enemy to plant fear and excuses in our minds.

Consider this: when Peter saw Jesus walking on water, he was able to step out of the boat only because he obeyed immediately (Matthew 14:29). If he had hesitated, questioning the logic of walking on water, fear would have taken hold before faith had a chance to lead him forward. Obedience in that moment was a split-second decision—one that required trust first, understanding later.

How many times have we missed out on what God wanted to do because we wanted full understanding before taking the first step? If we insist on seeing the whole picture before we move, we may never move at all.

It’s Time to Move

God doesn’t give us commands to negotiate or modify. He calls us to immediate and complete obedience. If you’ve been holding back, today is the day to move forward.

There is something powerful about immediate obedience. When God called Abraham to leave his home, he went without knowing where he was going (Hebrews 11:8). When Jesus told His disciples to follow Him, they left everything immediately (Matthew 4:19-20). They didn’t wait for conditions to be perfect or for every detail to be explained. They moved in faith, trusting that obedience itself would unlock the next step.

We must do the same.

Obedience is the currency of the Kingdom—your next step is tied to your ability to follow God’s instruction. The question is, will you move now, or will you wait until it’s too late?

A Final Warning and Encouragement

We must understand that delayed obedience doesn’t just slow us down—it alters the course of our lives. Saul’s hesitation cost him the throne. The Israelites’ fear kept them wandering in the wilderness for 40 years. Jesus Himself warned in Luke 9:62, “No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.”

So what are you waiting for? What step of faith have you been avoiding? What has God called you to do that you’ve been postponing?

Delayed obedience is still disobedience. Don’t wait. Do it now.

A Bold Faith in a World That Prefers Silence

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“The world tolerates Christianity as long as it stays tame. A private faith, a quiet gospel, a kneeling church. But speak with authority, stand with conviction, and they will come with torches.” — Michael Foster

The world has no issue with Christianity as long as it remains private, passive, and powerless. A faith confined to quiet prayers, polite conversations, and personal reflection poses no threat to the systems of this age. But the moment the church finds its voice—when believers stand firm in truth and proclaim the gospel with conviction—the world reacts. And that reaction is often hostile.

This is nothing new. Jesus Himself warned us: “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you.” (John 15:18) The gospel is not designed to blend in or be comfortable; it is a declaration of the authority of Christ over all things. The moment we live as though Jesus is not just our personal Savior but the reigning King, we are bound to meet resistance.

A Gospel That Disrupts

Ephesians 6:10-13 reminds us that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of darkness. The enemy does not fear a Christianity that remains silent, but he trembles at one that is unashamed and unafraid. A faith that is spoken boldly, lived unapologetically, and proclaimed without fear shakes the very foundations of worldly powers.

Consider the early church. The apostles were not hunted down because they prayed quietly in their homes—they were arrested, beaten, and martyred because they preached Christ as Lord, refusing to bow to Caesar. They understood that faith in Jesus was not just a private matter; it was a call to stand firm in a world that demands compromise.

Paul himself wrote from prison, not because he was merely religious, but because he was a threat to the order of the day. He would not stop proclaiming Christ crucified, even when it cost him everything. The same world that rejected Jesus will reject those who follow Him wholeheartedly.

The Cost of Speaking Truth

We live in a time where the loudest voices often demand conformity. The world tolerates faith until it challenges its idols. The moment Christianity speaks against sin, calls for repentance, and declares Jesus as the only way, the opposition begins. The modern church is often tempted to soften its message—to make it more palatable, less offensive, and more socially acceptable. But truth is not meant to be reshaped to fit culture; culture is meant to be transformed by truth.

The question we must ask ourselves is this: Are we living a faith that the world can comfortably ignore, or are we standing with boldness in the authority of Christ? The gospel does not ask for permission to be spoken—it commands us to proclaim it.

Standing in the Full Armor of God

Paul tells us in Ephesians 6:13-17 to take up the full armor of God, not so that we can quietly blend in, but so that we may stand firm in the evil day. The belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the shield of faith, and the sword of the Spirit are not the attire of passive believers—they are the armor of warriors in a spiritual battle.

Being a Christian is not about being liked. It is about being faithful. The church is not called to silence; it is called to proclaim the gospel in season and out of season, whether it is welcomed or opposed.

Let the Light Shine

Jesus said in Matthew 5:14-16, “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.” Light does not ask darkness for permission to shine—it simply shines. And when light appears, darkness reacts.

We do not need to seek controversy, but we must never shrink back from truth. The gospel is offensive to a world that loves darkness, but it is also the only message that brings life. Our calling is to preach Christ crucified, to stand firm when the world demands silence, and to trust that God is with us when opposition comes.

So let them come with torches. Let them accuse, mock, and reject. The world did the same to Christ, and yet He overcame. And because He overcame, so will we.

Will we be a silent church that the world can ignore? Or will we stand with boldness, refusing to compromise, proclaiming the truth no matter the cost?

The time for passive faith is over. It is time to stand.

Echoes of Truth: Guarding the Integrity of Biblical Theology

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Echoes of Truth Over Voices of Falsehood

Charles Spurgeon’s words echo with a deep sense of responsibility that every follower of Christ should feel: “I had rather be an echo of truth than the voice of falsehood. Rest assured that there is nothing new in biblical theology except that which is false.” This profound statement is not merely about preferring truth over lies; it is about anchoring ourselves to the eternal, unchanging Word of God, especially in a world where new interpretations and ideologies constantly attempt to reshape biblical truths.

In an age where originality is often celebrated over authenticity, there’s a temptation to seek fresh takes on Scripture—new revelations, hidden meanings, and reimagined doctrines. Yet, Spurgeon’s reminder cuts through this noise with piercing clarity: biblical truth is timeless. The core of God’s revelation to humanity has not changed, nor will it. Any teaching that claims to offer a “new” biblical truth is, by its very nature, a distortion.

The Danger of “New” Theology

Throughout history, the Church has witnessed countless waves of new theological trends—many of which veer from the core teachings of Scripture. From the rise of gnosticism in the early church to modern prosperity gospel movements, the pursuit of novelty often leads believers astray. Spurgeon’s warning is clear: when someone claims to have uncovered a “new truth” within biblical theology, we should approach with discernment. Scripture itself affirms this in Ecclesiastes 1:9: “What has been is what will be, and what has been done is what will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun.”

True biblical theology is not about innovation—it’s about preservation. It’s about echoing what has already been perfectly revealed through Scripture. It’s about being a faithful steward of the Word, not an innovator.

The Call to Echo Truth

Echoing truth is not passive repetition; it is an active, intentional alignment with the heart of God’s Word. When Spurgeon speaks of being an “echo of truth,” he’s calling us to deeply internalize biblical teaching so that it naturally reverberates through our lives, our speech, and our actions. This kind of echo doesn’t dilute or distort—it amplifies the original message.

In 2 Timothy 4:2-4, Paul charges Timothy: “Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions.” This warning feels especially relevant today. Many seek teachings that align with personal desires rather than biblical truth. But the call remains: preach the Word—pure, unfiltered, and unchanged.

Resisting the Pull of Cultural Influence

Cultural trends often seep into theology, subtly reshaping core doctrines under the guise of relevance or inclusivity. While the gospel is for all people, it is not shaped by the ever-shifting sands of cultural opinion. The Word of God stands as an immovable foundation. Isaiah 40:8 reminds us, “The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever.”

Echoing truth means standing firm, even when biblical convictions clash with popular opinion. It means prioritizing faithfulness over acceptance, integrity over applause. In an era where cancel culture and social backlash can silence voices of conviction, the Church needs believers who are willing to be echoes of truth, even when it costs them something.

The Role of the Church: Guardians of Doctrine

The Church has a sacred responsibility to guard the truth. This isn’t about gatekeeping but safeguarding. Leaders, teachers, and everyday believers must approach Scripture with humility, reverence, and a commitment to its original intent. Jude 1:3 urges believers to “contend for the faith that was once for all delivered to the saints.” Notice the phrase “once for all”—the faith has already been delivered. It does not need modern enhancements or cultural upgrades.

Churches that chase theological trends risk losing their grounding in the Word. Instead, the focus should be on faithfully teaching Scripture, equipping believers to discern truth from falsehood, and fostering spiritual maturity rooted in the timeless gospel.

Final Thoughts: Why Echoes Matter

Being an echo of truth in today’s world is not always glamorous. It may not garner large followings or social media virality. But it is the faithful path. It honors the God who has revealed Himself through His Word and preserves the life-giving message of the gospel for future generations.

Let us be a people who echo Scripture with clarity and conviction. Let us reject the allure of theological novelty and stand firm in the timeless truths of God’s Word. And when faced with the choice between cultural relevance and biblical faithfulness, may we always choose to be echoes of truth—no matter the cost.

In the end, it is better to echo the eternal than to shout the temporary.

The Joyful Surrender of a Redeemed Life

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Salvation by grace is not merely a transaction—it is a transformation. When a person truly encounters the grace of God, something profound happens within them. They are no longer motivated by external rules or solemn obligations to serve Christ. Instead, their new life in Him compels them to joyful obedience.

Charles Spurgeon captures this truth beautifully: “A person who is really saved by Grace does not need to be told that he is under solemn obligations to serve Christ. The new life within him tells him that. Instead of regarding it as a burden, he gladly surrenders himself, body, soul, and spirit, to the Lord.”

Too often, Christian service is viewed as a weight—something we must do to prove our faithfulness. But the one who has truly been redeemed does not serve out of duty, but out of delight. The heart that has been changed by Christ wants to follow Him. The soul that has been set free longs to walk in obedience. The transformed believer does not view surrender to God as a loss, but as the highest privilege.

Surrender Rooted in Grace, Not Obligation

There is a stark difference between serving Christ out of obligation and serving Him out of love. The first is rooted in religious performance, an effort to meet some perceived requirement to earn God’s favor. The second flows from the realization that we have already received God’s favor through Jesus. When we grasp the depth of His love and grace, our response is not reluctant compliance but willing devotion.

Paul affirms this in 2 Corinthians 5:17: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” This transformation is not just theoretical—it is practical. A heart filled with gratitude and love for God no longer asks, “What must I do?” but instead, “How can I offer my life fully to the One who saved me?”

This kind of surrender is not merely about actions; it’s about identity. The believer who understands grace recognizes that their very existence now belongs to Christ. This is why Paul also writes in Romans 12:1, “I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.” Our lives are not our own—they are His, and offering them back in joyful surrender is our natural response to His mercy.

The Burden of Self vs. The Freedom of Surrender

The world often frames surrender as weakness, but in God’s Kingdom, surrender is where true strength and freedom are found. Holding on to control, insisting on our own way, and striving in our own power leads to exhaustion, frustration, and ultimately spiritual stagnation. We were not created to be our own masters. The more we grasp for control, the more burdensome life becomes. But when we release our grip and trust in God’s perfect will, we find rest for our souls.

Jesus Himself calls us into this freedom: “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

The paradox of surrender is that it does not bring restriction, but liberation. We are freed from the weight of self-reliance and ushered into a life of divine dependence, where God carries what we cannot. When we cease striving and rest in Him, we discover that His grace is sufficient and His power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Living in Surrender Daily

Surrendering to Christ is not a one-time decision; it is a daily posture of the heart. Every day, we must choose whether we will live for ourselves or for Him. The enemy would have us believe that surrendering to God means giving up something precious. But in reality, it is only through surrender that we receive what is truly precious—eternal joy, peace that surpasses understanding, and a life that bears fruit for His Kingdom.

Surrender is practical. It means letting go of our pride and allowing God to shape us. It means releasing our plans and trusting in His. It means forgiving when we would rather hold on to bitterness. It means loving sacrificially, even when it’s inconvenient. It means obeying His voice, even when we don’t fully understand where He’s leading. And through all of this, it means remembering that we do not surrender alone—God’s Spirit empowers us to live this life of joyful submission.

The Joy of a Life Fully Given to Christ

A surrendered life is a joyful life. Not because it is easy, but because it is anchored in Christ’s sufficiency. When we let go of our illusions of control and allow Him to take the lead, we walk in step with His perfect will. We experience the deep, abiding joy of knowing that our lives are being used for something greater than ourselves. And in that, we find true fulfillment.

May we live not as those burdened by obligation, but as those compelled by love. May our surrender be not reluctant, but joyful. May we echo the words of the psalmist: “I delight to do Your will, O my God; Your law is within my heart.” (Psalm 40:8)

True grace produces true surrender, and in that surrender, we find the greatest joy. Let us live in that joy today.

Transform Your Space, Transform Your Life

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The spaces we inhabit—our rooms, workstations, vehicles, and other personal environments—are not merely neutral settings; they serve as outward reflections of our inner lives. A cluttered or disordered space often mirrors unresolved inner turmoil or emotional disarray, functioning as a tangible representation of the disorganization within our minds and hearts. These physical spaces are, in many ways, a visible extension of the invisible realities shaping our inner worlds.

Engaging with the external can become a practical and accessible starting point for fostering internal transformation. When the complexities of spiritual or emotional renewal feel daunting, turning our attention to the physical spaces we control offers a pathway toward clarity and order. By decluttering, organizing, and intentionally structuring our surroundings, we initiate a process that can ripple inward, cultivating mental focus, emotional stability, and spiritual clarity. These acts of external organization are not ends in themselves but are deeply connected to fostering peace and purpose within.

This process moves beyond superficial neatness. It represents an intentional effort to harmonize our external environments with our inner aspirations. Caring for our physical spaces reflects a broader spiritual discipline—a commitment to steward well the resources and responsibilities God has entrusted to us. Such alignment underscores the holistic nature of spiritual formation, where external order serves as a metaphor and mechanism for internal renewal.

Moreover, this practice mirrors the biblical principle of stewardship and self-discipline, inviting us to align every aspect of our lives with the values and priorities of Christ. As we work to bring order and care to our environments, we embody a tangible expression of living in alignment with His teachings. This process of ordering our physical spaces becomes a spiritual exercise, fostering a sense of readiness to embrace the transformative work of the Holy Spirit.

Through these intentional actions, we affirm the intrinsic connection between the physical and spiritual dimensions of our lives. By mindfully attending to our environments, we open ourselves to the formative power of God’s grace, creating space for transformation to occur both within and without. This alignment fosters not only personal growth but also a deeper capacity to live out the mission and calling to which Christ invites us.

The Centrality of Jesus in Our Conversations

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I wonder if the watching world is as shocked as I am that Jesus is such an insignificant subject in many professing Christians’ conversations about themselves—their thoughts, actions, behaviors, and the details of their lives (myself included). It’s unsettling to consider how often we go about our days without mentioning the One who should be at the center of everything. How often do we miss opportunities to bring Him into our discussions, even in the mundane parts of life? Whether it’s at work, with family, or among friends, Jesus often seems absent from the dialogue.

Now, that’s not to say that we don’t often hear the Bible and God referenced when Christians discuss their opinions and judgments about the actions and behaviors of others. Or that some don’t wax eloquent with their interpretations of various biblical scenarios and theological matters. But how often is Jesus truly at the center of our everyday conversations—our hourly thoughts and actions? It seems that for many of us, Jesus is brought up when it’s convenient, when it suits our arguments, or when we want to make a point about morality. But what about in our day-to-day, when we’re just sharing life with others? Are we talking about Him then? Are we reflecting His love in our words and attitudes, even when we aren’t explicitly mentioning His name?

He is the One to whom we have committed everything, the One to whom we owe our allegiance and loyalty. He is the One who sacrificed His life so that we might know Him, the One who created us with intentionality and purpose. His grace, mercy, love, and forgiveness are what make a restored and reconciled relationship with Him possible. Shouldn’t He, then, be the core of our words, the foundation of our daily reflections, and the center of every decision we make? If Jesus is truly our Savior and Lord, then His influence should permeate every aspect of our lives. Our conversations should reflect our relationship with Him, not in a forced or overly religious way, but naturally and authentically, flowing from a heart that is captivated by His love.

This is no easy task, but it is one worth striving for. We need to reflect on how we can make Jesus central to our daily conversations—not as an afterthought or merely a reference point for others, but as the true foundation of our own lives. This requires intentionality. It means making time to dwell on His Word, to talk to Him in prayer throughout the day, and to look for ways to bring Him into the conversations we have with others. It means letting go of the fear of what others might think and instead being bold in sharing how Jesus is working in our lives. When He becomes our priority, He naturally becomes a part of our conversations, whether we’re talking about our struggles, our successes, or the ordinary moments of our day.

Reflective Questions:

  • How often does Jesus come up in your everyday conversations? Are these mentions intentional or just occasional references?
  • Is He the focal point of your thoughts, or do other topics and worries take precedence over Him? What steps can you take to ensure He stays at the center?
  • How can you intentionally bring Jesus back to the center of your words, actions, and relationships? Are there specific moments in your day where you can consciously bring Him into focus?

Final Thought

Jesus is not just a figure to be discussed on Sundays or referenced when convenient. He is the One who gave everything for us, and He deserves to be central in our daily lives. Let’s strive to make Him the subject of our thoughts and the heart of our conversations, so that the watching world sees that He truly matters to us. Let’s make it our goal to ensure that our faith is not compartmentalized but rather integrated into every part of our lives. When Jesus is truly central, our words and actions will reflect His love, grace, and truth, allowing others to see Him clearly through us. The world is watching, and our lives can be a powerful testimony to the One who has given us everything.

The Unbreakable Bond of Salvation in Christ

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You have probably heard people say, “I used to be a Christian.” They speak as though being a follower of Christ is something that can be undone. It’s a phrase that raises questions. It also offers an opportunity to clarify an important truth. When someone is genuinely transformed by the Holy Spirit, that transformation is permanent.

There’s no such thing as a “former Christian.” If you have truly been saved by Jesus and the Holy Spirit has entered your heart, there is no going back. It’s not just an emotional decision or a fleeting commitment. It’s a lifelong journey of transformation that begins the moment we accept Christ. This journey continues throughout our lives.

Jesus Himself assures us of this in John 10:27-28: “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand.”

This passage speaks to the security we have in Christ. Once you’re in His hands, you belong to Him forever. It’s not something that depends on our strength or ability to stay faithful—it’s grounded in Christ’s power to keep us.

It’s easy to get confused when we see people who once appeared committed to the faith suddenly drift away or declare they are no longer Christians. Does this mean salvation can be lost? Not at all. 1 John 2:19 explains it clearly: “They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us.”

True salvation bears lasting fruit. While some may have experiences with the church or outward signs of faith, those who truly know Christ remain rooted in Him, even through difficult seasons.

One of the most powerful assurances we have as believers comes from Ephesians 4:30:
“And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.”

The Holy Spirit’s work in our hearts is not temporary. When we are saved, we are sealed for eternity. This means that the transformation that takes place when we give our lives to Christ is something no one—not even ourselves—can undo.

Of course, the Christian walk is not without challenges. There will be times of doubt, struggle, and even moments where we may feel distant from God. But instead of these moments pushing us away from our faith, they often become opportunities for God to draw us closer to Him. Through trials and hardships, we grow, learn, and depend on Christ even more.

As Romans 8:38-39 beautifully reminds us: “For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

There is no undoing the work of salvation once it has taken root in your heart. If you’ve been saved by Jesus, you are His forever. Let’s be encouraged by the truth that our salvation is secure in Christ, and no matter what, the Holy Spirit continues to work in us to bring us closer to the likeness of Christ.

Your Way or the Highway

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Some of the most challenging people to connect with in the body of Christ are those who feel that they have an enlightened, private interpretation of their own about Scripture, the church, people, culture, practices, preferences, etc. They’re full of alternate ideas and suggestions of how things should be done, said, taught, etc. They’re right and everyone else is wrong, but you’re still expected to work with them and include them, despite their obstinance and “been there more often, done that better, and bought the superior t-shirt” attitude.

This is not to say that we can’t all learn from these personalities. None of us have a corner on the market of knowledge and experience and God DOES bring people into our lives and into our churches that can share new experiences with us, in the journey, along the way. But there’s a difference between bringing your “lessons learned the hard way”, growth and maturity into new relationships and entering new relationships with the goal of making them look like your old relationships that failed along the way.

“How can I help us better pursue God’s glory for His Kingdom” goes much farther than “Can you just do things the way I want you to?” The difference may be as subtle as authentic humility and self-important arrogance. It’s not about your way or my way. It’s about His way!

Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. ~ Matthew 6:10

Search Me, O God

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Follower of Jesus, before you assume guilt assigned to you by someone else, stop and humbly confer with the Holy Spirit. David prayed this prayer in relation to those who were doing and speaking horrible things over both he and Yahweh: “Search me, O God, and know my heart; Try me and know my anxious thoughts; And see if there be any hurtful way in me, And lead me in the everlasting way.” (Psalm 139:23-24) Yahweh will honor your request. If your heart or actions have been wrong, He’s not going to withhold that from you.

However, what Yahweh MAY reveal to you is the person’s pension for doing the same thing to others. How many others have they treated the same way? How many others do they blame for doing them wrong? How many relationships or churches have they abandoned because they were offended? How many other people have they blocked, unfriended, and canceled rather than seeking holy reconciliation and restoration by following Jesus’ prescriptive plan in Matthew 18 for when a brother or sister sins against you?

At some point, the “offended” might have to look in the mirror and realize that THEY are miserable and alone, that THEY are the victimized, not the victim.

I know that as a pastor/counselor, I’ve seen this cycle so many, many times in relationships. I’ve told people for years, “I’ve gone to many churches…” is not an asset to your resume or your reputation! It’s like saying, “I’ve been married many times.” You’re not instilling confidence in your character. I’ve heard the question, “Why does this keep happening to me?” way more times than I’ve heard, “Why do I keep doing this?”

Let us test and examine our ways, and return to the Lord! ~Lamentations 3:40