I wonder if the watching world is as shocked as I am that Jesus is such an insignificant subject in many professing Christians’ conversations about themselves—their thoughts, actions, behaviors, and the details of their lives (myself included). It’s unsettling to consider how often we go about our days without mentioning the One who should be at the center of everything. How often do we miss opportunities to bring Him into our discussions, even in the mundane parts of life? Whether it’s at work, with family, or among friends, Jesus often seems absent from the dialogue.
Now, that’s not to say that we don’t often hear the Bible and God referenced when Christians discuss their opinions and judgments about the actions and behaviors of others. Or that some don’t wax eloquent with their interpretations of various biblical scenarios and theological matters. But how often is Jesus truly at the center of our everyday conversations—our hourly thoughts and actions? It seems that for many of us, Jesus is brought up when it’s convenient, when it suits our arguments, or when we want to make a point about morality. But what about in our day-to-day, when we’re just sharing life with others? Are we talking about Him then? Are we reflecting His love in our words and attitudes, even when we aren’t explicitly mentioning His name?
He is the One to whom we have committed everything, the One to whom we owe our allegiance and loyalty. He is the One who sacrificed His life so that we might know Him, the One who created us with intentionality and purpose. His grace, mercy, love, and forgiveness are what make a restored and reconciled relationship with Him possible. Shouldn’t He, then, be the core of our words, the foundation of our daily reflections, and the center of every decision we make? If Jesus is truly our Savior and Lord, then His influence should permeate every aspect of our lives. Our conversations should reflect our relationship with Him, not in a forced or overly religious way, but naturally and authentically, flowing from a heart that is captivated by His love.
This is no easy task, but it is one worth striving for. We need to reflect on how we can make Jesus central to our daily conversations—not as an afterthought or merely a reference point for others, but as the true foundation of our own lives. This requires intentionality. It means making time to dwell on His Word, to talk to Him in prayer throughout the day, and to look for ways to bring Him into the conversations we have with others. It means letting go of the fear of what others might think and instead being bold in sharing how Jesus is working in our lives. When He becomes our priority, He naturally becomes a part of our conversations, whether we’re talking about our struggles, our successes, or the ordinary moments of our day.
Reflective Questions:
- How often does Jesus come up in your everyday conversations? Are these mentions intentional or just occasional references?
- Is He the focal point of your thoughts, or do other topics and worries take precedence over Him? What steps can you take to ensure He stays at the center?
- How can you intentionally bring Jesus back to the center of your words, actions, and relationships? Are there specific moments in your day where you can consciously bring Him into focus?
Final Thought
Jesus is not just a figure to be discussed on Sundays or referenced when convenient. He is the One who gave everything for us, and He deserves to be central in our daily lives. Let’s strive to make Him the subject of our thoughts and the heart of our conversations, so that the watching world sees that He truly matters to us. Let’s make it our goal to ensure that our faith is not compartmentalized but rather integrated into every part of our lives. When Jesus is truly central, our words and actions will reflect His love, grace, and truth, allowing others to see Him clearly through us. The world is watching, and our lives can be a powerful testimony to the One who has given us everything.
Minimizing me...making much of Jesus 