Neither fellowship NOR accountability in relationships should be based on derivative, secondary doctrines and issues.
Let a man examine himself and let a home examine itself regarding its responsibility to God to administer personal applications laid on their heart by His Word and His Spirit.
In the essentials, we must have unity.
In the non-essentials, we can have some diversity.
In all things, we show love.
We should never try to turn non-essentials into essentials.
Personal holiness is not holiness if it is not saturated in personal humility. Some of the most “godly behavior” reeks of the arrogance that props it up and imposes its standards on others.
Keep the highest priority the priority!